essay

When kids graduate from high school they are used to a very simple way things are run. Especially sexually. In high school there really isn't that much pressure to have sex. Kids are more in a safe environment. When those kids take those steps into adulthood and go to college, that safe environment changes. People are pressured to perform sexually. I have some advice for those younger freshman that aren't ready to take that next step.

The first piece of advice i have i have to offer is to be affirmative wit your decision. If you don't feel like you are ready to have sex then you should not have sex. Simple as that. If you feel like you are being pressured to have sex, simply say no and get out of that situation. If you are not the mean type i recommend changing the subject or if you are in the situation make an excuse to leave. Staying strong to your choice will really help you out.

My next and final piece of advice is to really get a good back round check on the person you are about to get with. If this person really means a lot to you, enough to take that step then you should know some things about them. One way to do this is to ask around. Ask their friends or anyone that knows them. Just kind of as who they are as a person. Another way is to Google the person. Now I have never Googled someone but I have heard good results from doing so. Another way to get to know the person is to just hangout with them. Get to know them, that is really the only way you are going to be able to get a good feeling about someone.

With this advice I hope that whoever is reading it finds it helpful. It really is hard to stick to your guns about certain things. Especially sex. But with the right attitude and confidence it really can go a long way.